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Volunteering with the KBCE

A few months ago, I saw a post for a British based Korean not for profit organisation Korean British culture Exchange (kbce) looking for volunteers to help with making social media posts on specific subjects. I put my name forward or Kdramas ‘cos you know I love a bit of drama if it’s Korean! ☺️

Ever the overachiever, I sent in my CV and not only did they ask if I would help with posting about a kdrama every other week they also asked if I could put some of my other skills to the test and give up some of my time to support KBCE in other ways! I gladly said yes and that’s what I’ve been doing for a few months and it’s been an amazing experience.

I’m currently helping with general administration as well as supporting event planning and I’m helping to run the social media accounts, it’s all been a wonderful learning curve for me putting my transferable skills into new activities and today was the first in one of the events I’ve been helping with!

I took the family along to the KBCE East and South East Asia mid-autumn festival at Kingston, supported by Kingston Council, Kingston Beats and Kingston Chinese Association, amongst others and it was a brilliant day!

Market Hall at the Ancient Market Kingston setting up for the KBCE ESEA 2024.
Setting up for the day!

The whole day was a wonderful first experience for me! It was so wonderful getting to see a positive and beautiful display of celebrating East and South East Asia, especially as I volunteer for the KBCE and I was a small part of bringing it together.

I have to say the most loveliest part was meeting all the other wonderful people I’ve been getting to know through team chats and zoom calls – but in person. But also seeing all the amazing volunteers giving up time to make the day extra special! Everyone was friendly and the whole day was just wonderful!

Lovely lady at the costume stand helping Luna get dressed in a Hanbok ☺️

We experienced badgemaking with the wonderful team for Stanley Picker gallery and Dorich House museum, and I really want to come back to visit when they have the “under construction” exhibit by Takeshi Hayatsu up and running and I really want to see some more of the Elizabeth Keith project! I’ll share more about that another day for now if you’re interested check out their website.

We also had some yummy Korean food, louen ate two portions of dumplings and wouldn’t share, Nick and Luna had gimbap and we all shared some teriyaki chicken and I had some beautiful Buchujeon (chive pancake) which I also didn’t want to share.🙈😂

I don’t have any photos because as I’ve said before I’d make a terrible food blogger as I’m always so excited to eat it I never remember to stop and take pictures first 🤦🏼‍♀️ (this might be one of the only times I ever got the food pic and it was yummy lockdown korean food)

Next up both kids tried on traditional Korean and Chinese clothing kindly donated for the day by the KBCE and the KCA and it was amazing and sweet! Louen looked handsome in a purple hanbok but Luna still takes the prize for the cutest award because everyone wanted to help her get dressed and wanted a photo! She was beautiful in her hanbok.

Finally, we thoroughly enjoyed the acts on stage. The musical kids were adorable and very brave to stand up onstage and sing for everyone, the kpop cover acts were incredible and inspiring. (We could with a little less for Luna though as she already dance 5 days a week, now she wants to take learning kpop covers seriously, let me know if you find an extra day of the week for her to fit this in please). Dream maker was awesome, they looked amazing and I really enjoyed it. Sadly I am not coordinated enough to join and it’s a little far to come but thanks for the kind man for thinking I looked even remotely fit enough to give it a go 🙈😂

Me and Luna were especially excited to see Team Hye and they did not disappoint such amazingly talented young people! Truly brilliant!

The Chinese traditional acts were beautiful, the dancing and singing was simply stunning and the martial art display was breath taking. Luna yelped a couple of times.

I had never heard of Frank Chickens but in planning the event I had to do some research and honestly I think I would have loved them back in the 80’s had I been old enough, I think they would definitely been something I would have been interested in 😂 and they also did not disappoint. In fact they were a highlight! So entertaining and full of energy and I couldn’t help but smile and dance around as we watched.

The whole day was wonderfully run and we felt very honoured to be invited and to have had a small part in helping the success of the day. On to the next one and I cannot wait!

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Beef Bulgogi!

What’s your favorite recipe?

I have a BTS recipe book! I have only tried one recipe, I enjoyed it but we don’t have an Asian shop so close by so it’s hard to make some of the recipes.

But I did get everything I needed to make amazing beef bulgogi and it’s now one of our weekly staples!

A whole table full of Korean food from Korean fried chicken to beef bulgogi, dumplings to kimchi Jeon!

I’ve also tried making bibimbap or at least my own variation of it! And we all like it!

A bowl of bibimbap with minced beef, a variety of vegetables and a fried egg.

Me and Luna love Asian food so I can’t wait to try something else!

Our other go to food Jin Ramen… I know it’s not a recipe but honestly we could eat that everyday 🙈😂

I also made some crochet gimbap, does that counts? 🙈😂

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Like marmite you either love me or you don’t 😬

If humans had taglines, what would yours be?

I think most of my taglines would be warnings 😂

I think I’m a bit like marmite, you either love me or you don’t 👀😂 or maybe a gremlin so,

  • Don’t feed me chocolate, alcohol, proplus or anything with too much sugar close to midnight if you want to get any peace before 6am! 😂
  • I have a lot of energy, can be a bit much for most people!
  • Loud, proud and round! 😅
  • Will talk to anyone about anything in excess, likes the sound of my own voice 😬

Honestly, probably BTS but give me a chance and I could talk your head off about anything!

  • Ray of sunshine and just as bright! ☺️
  • Obsessive is an understatement
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More bubble tea!

Today was an exciting day! A new bubble tea shop opened up on our door step! So we had to go check it out!

A new Boba Corner opened in Yeovil today at 11am. Luna had dance class so we couldn’t get there for opening but we managed to go for a lunchtime bubble tea!

Image of purple taro bubble tea with the words so tasty bubble tea on it

First impressions were good! The staff are very happy and friendly, it looks like a nice family run franchise. 😍

The menu was not as extensive as other bubble tea places we’ve been to but we all found a flavour to try, I had a taro milk tea which was lovely and purple 💜 my bts heart melted, however I should have gone with no sugar as it was super sweet and I couldn’t finish it all 🙈

Louen went with his usual chocolate but had to branch out with strawberry boba as they didn’t have apple. Which chocolate and apple goes surprisingly well but he also love strawberry so to was all good!

Waiting for his bubble tea we got some lovely photos in the shop as the decor is wonderful and they even have a lovely insta corner ☺️

Louen even got a portion of dumplings to keep him from starving to death 🙄 thirteen and so dramatic and hard to keep fed apparently!

Happy with my bubble tea!

We enjoyed our probably first of many bubble teas. I will be happy to see if they change their menu up a bit but overall it was a wonderful first experience.

Don’t worry we will still be travelling around lots of other bubble tea places and returning to one of our favourites but we are super impressed and happy to have a bubble tea shop on our doorstep!

Looking forward to trying our second one on our next visit!

Tina 💜🦋

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Just one day 💜

What’s a job you would like to do for just one day?

Yeah, yeah
Yeah, just one day, one night
That’s all I would want

하루만 너와 내가 함께할 수 있다면
하루만 너와 내가 손잡을 수 있다면
하루만 너와 내가 함께할 수 있다면
하루만 (하루만)
너와 내가 함께할 수 있다면

A picture of bts sitting down on chairs for the music video just one day

Hhhm good question… I would like to spend a day with BTS learning, watching and enjoying every minute of that day. I can’t pick just one job, I want all the jobs, all the experiences. I want to help produce a song, learn some choreo, write some lyrics, record an episode of run bts and eat all the ramen after a full day of watching a talented group of men and soaking in all the wonderful mess they provide ☺️💜

I would like to say I’d like more than just one day but let’s be honest, I’d probably pass out after spending one day with all the members. So just one day would probably be just enough time to let me not make a fool myself!

If it wasn’t a job question and I had a full day to do whatever I wanted, I’d probably still choose to spend the day with the members watching them in their element and getting to see them interact with each other. 💜

What would just one day mean for you?

Sopey 🦋💜

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Namjoon for Prime Minister

Do you vote in political elections?

Yes I do! Would I vote more if it was for Namjoon for Prime Minister? 😏 Hhmm… whilst I consider this let me continue.

My dad always told me that if I don’t vote I don’t get to complain. If you are willing to go and have your say, you will never make a difference and even though I don’t really believe my one little vote makes much difference in the grand scheme of things – it makes a difference to me. I did a little bit of research and I took ten minutes out of my day to go and put a cross in a little box and I treated myself to a dairy milk fruit and nut for being civic minded 😂

Now was I a little saddened to not see BTS leader Namjoon not listed on my crime commissioner voting form… yes I was! If I could I would vote for a BTS member in all my local elections – as they truly make me happy and I would happily do anything they asked me to do – they I would 😂💜

Picture of Kim Namjoon of BTS holding a piece of paper saying Kim Namjoon for President
Kim Namjoon for everything.

I mean look at him!!!

Look at him!

I would vote for him!

Anyway, back to reality, I did my bit and I voted. Not sure if it makes any difference grand scheme but I did my little bit and that’s all anyone can ask.

What was your favourite Namjoon for president meme or favourite BTS in the real world meme?

Mine has to be when BTS came to Wembley and we didn’t know where they were and we are a respectful nation who didn’t swarm them at the airport and had no idea what they were doing. So instead we made funny memes about poundland.

What’s your favourite?

Bye for now

Sopey 🦋💜

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Stan a group that stans you back💜

I’ve said it once, I’ll sing it from the roof tops! Stan a group that stans you back! The love I feel from this song is immense! I can literally feel it warming me from the tip of my toes to the top of my head! My heart is full, and although the feelings of sadness from not seeing the members and their antics everyday is still there, Jimin and his new song has filled my heart with love, warmth and strength!

https://youtu.be/zzKV_T9ybe8?si=WRLk3dFPHhby49iG

Firstly, the music video is just filled with the pureness of Jimin. From walking the streets to showcasing the journey of BTS, it perfectly encompasses everything that makes Jimin the sweet natured, beautiful soul he is. The sadness and the worry that we feel, is shared by the members and this video echoes these feelings, honestly Stan a group that stans you back. It’s the best feeling in the world to know that you care about someone, and that although they do not know each and every single one of us personally, as a collective misses us too!

Many significant and emotional moments are included in this video and will bring back so many happy, raw emotions for the members and for army, and what a beautiful story it has been. Jimin perfectly reminds us all what we love so much about them and shows that although we will miss them, equally they miss us too and we are in this together and will get through this and will reunite on the other side and get to hear more beautiful songs, see more crazy antics and get to enjoy this pureness of spirit and heartfelt positive message for a long time yet. What a beautiful leaving and Christmas present for all of us around the world!

You can download the song here:

Download Closer than this 💜

Some of the snippets of video and images will be so very familiar to army and for new army, it will give them some exciting new things to google to find out even more about their new loves! For me, seeing London and Young Forever within the video, especially brightened my day, as this was such an important and shining moment in my BTS history, to know they loved it, felt our love and still remember and cherish it as a memory, is just… well there are no words!

Moving on to the lyrics, although, it is a very personal message from Jimin, his little “baby, don’t worry” literally sums him up in a sentence. Truly a caring gentleman and as he described at the beginning, a message for his fans to remind us that this won’t be forever. He also provides comfort regarding the rest of the members and reminding us that it won’t be long until they are all back together, so it’s really a message from bts as a whole! You can feel Jimin really does feel the seven = 1 💜 and that in itself is a beautiful thing!

My favourite lyric is “letting go of your hand for a moment but it’s only a small comma in our story”, wow! Such an impact from a short line!

But there are so many amazing lines from this song, each one telling army so many things in very little words but if you know you know! Here are some of my favourites:

Every thing we see, feel and know about Jimin is perfectly portrayed in this music video. You can see his debut with BTS was a defining moment for him, and you can see his passion and talent. He is incredible as a member of BTS, he excelled as a soloist and is one amazingly talented individual. But even more than showing this, it shows his love for the members, for his brothers that knows no bounds! If Jimin’s pureness, his sweet soul, love for his members and caring attitude could be captured and shared, this music video would come pretty damn close to doing just that!

It’s definitely a very personal song for all armies all over the world, but at its heart, it’s also just a really sweet song, sung by an angelic voice, sharing love and kindness and reminding us all that even when we aren’t with the people we love, doing the things we love, those feelings we have, they don’t go away. So the energy, the positive messages, the encouragement BTS or whoever or whatever you love gives you, doesn’t go away, it’s always with you! But seriously stan a group that stans you back 💜 best feeling in the world!

Ooh I forgot to add! Also check out my sunshine being supportive as ever! Who doesn’t want a friendship like the love between Jimin and Hobi 😍🥹

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Today we’re going to focu….ooh look at the pretties!

If there was a biography about you, what would the title be?

Growing up I had the attention span of a three year old and had a thousand different hobbies and interests. But over the years, I would hyperfocus on specific hobbies and interests and those would stick and become part of my personality.

As an adult, I am still really similar although I do try not to flit so much between hobbies, interests and jobs, try being the watch word as I am still not great.

Some of my interests 😏😂

Partly because I get bored, I need the dopamine hit or I get so obsessed with something that I forget everything else I am doing in my life 🙈😂

My current obsession and has been for the last 5 years, if you hadn’t guessed from my blog is BTS and my love and passion isn’t going anywhere, they make me happy, drive me to do better and fill with me with love for myself and everyone else, but I do still get sidetracked a little but new books, new groups, new films and dramas because well look at the pretties, but my heart is clearly purple. 💜💜

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Happy Lunar New Year

Red background with a yellow intricate detailed circled surrounded by red abdomen gold decorations like fans. In the centre is the Korean for Happy New Year and 2024.
Happy New Year or 새해 복 많이 받으세요!

새해 복 많이 받으세요! 🎆 Happy Lunar New Year!

Lunar New Year is celebrated across many parts of Asia and families across the world. I don’t know everything about the holiday as it is very different to the New Year celebrations we have always partaken in my house on 31 December, but I think that’s partly why I’m so interested in learning.

I thought I’d write a quick post about some of the things I’ve learnt so far and show you some of my crochet projects I’ve been working on.

Spring Festival (Chinese New Year), Tet in Vietnam and Seollal, (Korean) are all celebrations of the Lunar New Year holiday and are all celebrated at the same time of the lunar calendar but each year the date differs because New Year begins with the first new moon of the lunar calendar. China celebrates for 15 days and ends on the first full moon, for Seollal and Tet they celebrate for three days, usually a day before, the day of and the day after New Year.

Lion dancers and a young girl celebrate the lunar new year with streamers.
Lunar New Year celebrations

This year Lunar New Year begins today, Saturday 10 February 2024. The Lunar New year relates to a different animal within a 12 year cycle and this is the year of the dragon. My daughter was born in 2012 and is excited that this year has got to be lucky for her as it’s “her” year!

Red background with an Asian dragon in the centre in white.
2024 – year of the dragon

Seollal is a special celebration to remember ancestors, visit family, eat great food and have fun. Traditionally, families would all gather together in the eldest male relatives house to pay respects to their ancestors and elders.

Various Food laid out across a table with Chinese characters on display in the background.
차례 or Charye

New Year for me, celebrated on the 31st December through to January 1st is a completely different event. I think it is still important to celebrate and sweep out the old and bring in the new as they say but I feel that it’s not such a big event for us. I’m the youngest child with a fairly big age gap so most of my childhood new years were spent with just my parents as my brother and sisters would go out drinking together. It was nice and we’d wait up together to watch the fireworks and sing auld lang syne and have a small drink of wine, but as soon as midnight passed we’d all go to bed and have a cooked dinner with the whole family back together (parents and siblings, I don’t remember us ever visiting our wider family but I think that’s just us, I believe other closer families get together for the holidays) like at Christmas but that’s it. Sometimes we would try to make token New Year’s resolutions but it wasn’t often we got far with them.

Londons Big Ben surrounded by fireworks
Fireworks near Big Ben

As I got older I would go into town with my siblings and friends and we would get dressed up in fancy dress or our finest clothes and drink and be merry and bring in the new year and then we’d spend New Year’s Day as a family again. Now I have my own children, we play games all evening, we order a takeaway, watch the fireworks and sing auld lang syne and then my husband and I cook for my mum and the kids and we enjoy a big new years dinner all together. It’s lovely and I enjoy the celebration but other than it starting a new year, I’ve never really quite understood why we do it. And I know plenty of people who just go to bed. I really do love the idea of starting the new year fresh and trying to aim for your goals and in the new year, plus I love getting together with family but for us it’s never been something we do.

A cartoon of a happy family sat around dinner table sharing food. Room is decorated with red and gold lanterns, cherry and yellow blossoms.

I think this is one of the reasons I love the Lunar New Year as it celebrates ancestors and brings families together. There is a reason other than it just being new year to celebrate.

In Korea, as part of Seollal, the families will traditionally participate in an ancestral ritual called 차례 (Charye) and typically involves the female relatives preparing the food and the males serving the food to the ancestors, finally everyone eats the food and gaining the ancestral blessings.

A bowl of sliced rice cake soup
Ddeokguk or 떡곡

Food preparer on Seollal can vary across region and includes rice, soup, meat, seafood, fruit and vegetables but a common dish to eat at New Year is 떡곡 (ddeokguk) which is a rice cake soup, children are excited to eat it as it marks a persons lunar birthday.

Image of a roast beef dinner, with potatoes, vegetables and Yorkshire puddings
Roast beef dinner

A typical New Years dinner for us, is similar to what we eat at Christmas except we swap out turkey for roast beef, or even what we eat on a Sunday but on a grander scale.

As well as eating to excess and enjoying time with family, funnily enough this is the same as how we celebrate new year too, they will also play games such as GoStop and Yut Nori.

I still have a lot to learn and I would love to meet and talk to families to see what they do for New Year and how they celebrate. I would also love to see a dragon dance. I caught the end of one in London last year but I would love to see a full performance one day.

I have crochet some lanterns in red and gold and I have made a wreath for hanging for my friend but I’m terribly unorganised as usual so I haven’t sent it 🤦🏼‍♀️

Red crochet wreath with a red and gold lantern, yellow flowers and a red envelope
Crochet lunar new year wreath

How are you celebrating the lunar new year? What are your traditions and stories? I’d love to hear about them. I’d love to learn more about the special celebration.

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A very Merry Bangtan Christmas!

Merry Bangtan Christmas to all, and to all a good morning! ☺️

I thought I’d start the Christmas Day festivities early with a quick round up of my favourite BTS Christmas goodies that I like to watch on Christmas Day (and any other day I can get away with it to be honest).

The best and probably my most watched YouTube video at Christmas time has got to be SBS Gayo Daejon Music Festival 2019, BTS Christmas medley! Honestly, from JKs vocals at the beginning singing O Holy night, which is one of my favourite Christmas hymns I may add, Namjoon and Jimin looking absolutely beautiful in that fit, Tae and Yoongi dancing and singing with a candy cane to Jin and Hobis perfect vocals blending together in Feliz Navidad and finally ending with a ot7 rendition of Silent Night, it might be one of my favourite performances. It just brings me so much joy to watch and to be honest I don’t always just save it until Xmas either 😬😂

Everything from the stage, to the story with the little girl, the songs they chose and the performance just bring me so much festive joy! A beautiful gift at Xmas!

Next up, I have to mention the SBS award Christmas version of life goes on and dynamite just for the simple reason, that Yoongi was out getting his shoulder injury fixed so they had to perform without him. But as always the members like to remind everyone they are 7 always and to make up for the loss of Yoongi they had a Yoongi snowman take his place during his part with microphone and everything and whilst his prerecording rap played the other members danced in the background. It was the most adorable and sweet tribute I’ve ever seen.

Secondly this video gets a mention because all the members in white relaxed in that Christmas setting is just pure handsomeness and is a Xmas gift right there! A Merry Bangtan Christmas to us!

My next stop for my Bangtan Christmas has got to be BTS sings “Santa Claus is coming to town” for the Disney Holiday Sing-a-long and for one very simple reason this has to be included … Namjoons growl/gravelly/huskily singing “he’s gonna find out who’s naughty or nice” or whatever he does at 0:52 seconds! It makes my tummy flip when I hear it! Just trust me and go watch it! 🫠😂

For my final pick, I’m moving away from the music video and over to a Run BTS episode because it’s a Christmas episode and it’s funny and Hobi is adorable in it. 😍 Episode 32 originally aired on 23/12/17, 6 years ago and has a run time of about 29 minutes ish!

Firstly, they all have to protect a Christmas pig! 😂 which is perfect for a run bts episode! Secondly, (minor spoiler alert but seriously this is a really old episode) they are all scared of Hobi, which is hilarious🤣. And finally… this bit with Tae! He’s so effortless funny and quirky! He makes me laugh and I love how pure he is and how happy he is just being himself. We should all be more like Tae!

I have many more favourite images, gifs and more but these are some of my top watched videos for Christmas Day! What are your favourites? Let me know and I wish you a very merry Bangtan Christmas and a happy new year! And just think this time next year when you rewatch these old favourites, it’ll be nearly 2025 and we will be one step nearer to more new BTS content 💜

Love Sopey 💜